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How to be Better (Not Bitter) After a Breakup

Last week legendary rapper, Nas, shocked us all when he took to his Instagram account and posted a 7-part tell all about his nasty custody battled with ex-wife and famed singer Kelis. Let’s just say – it was pretty shocking, especially since just a few months earlier, Kelis alleged that Nas was abusive AF during their five-year marriage. Since their divorce in 2010, many of us have watched from the sidelines as the two have been in and out of court duking it out for custody of their child. However, Kelis’ latest accusations had us all clutching our pearls! Fast forward five months, Nas has come forward with this side of the story. I guess we’ll never truly know the dynamics of their relationship and what actually went down, but,I have to say that a breakup can really bring out the worst in people. It’s important to remember when separating from a partner, it’s important to be better, not bitter in the end.

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What to do When He Levels Up Without You…

Have you ever been with a guy that just never seemed capable of getting their shit together while you were dating? If you have, you know how frustrating it can be to feel let down by his inability to step up to the plate and handle his business. Maybe he procrastinates a little too much, doesn’t take his future as seriously as he should, or is just flat-out lazy. The day comes when you finally dump him, and it seems like the huge weight of his poor decisions has been lifted off of your shoulders. Good riddance…right? Fast forward to the future and your ex looks hauntingly good and doing even better. In fact, he’s somehow morphed into the man you’ve always wanted – but he’s now that man with another woman.

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FREE Sneak Peek- “Dilemmas Of a Damsel: Part III”

Hey loves!! I’m so excited to announce that the third and final installment of “Dilemmas Of a Damsel” is here!!! Woooohooo! Can you believe that less than a year ago, I shared my first ever novel with the world?! I sure can’t. Well now you can get the COMPLETE 3-part series on Amazon!! Just follow the link here. Here’s a sneak peek of Kara’s story: she’s a hopeless romantic and messy as hell, but one of my favorite characters. Enjoy!

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FREE Sneak Peek – Meet Blair! “Dilemmas Of a Damsel: Part II”

Hello my loves! Today is the day! “Dilemmas Of a Damsel: Part II” is NOW AVAILABLE on Amazon! YAYYYY! If you liked Part I, I promise that you’re in for a treat. Get your copy here. But, if you still need convincing – Here’s another gift from me to you! I posted a sneak peek a few weeks ago, if you missed it you can read it here. See how Blair met Jayson in this new SNEAK PEEK of “Dilemmas Of a Damsel: Part II”!

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Are You Dating the Person, Promise, or Penis?

So, there’s nothing I love more than to pour myself a glass of wine, indulge in my favorite sweets and tune in to watch Iyanla Vanzant come in and try to help people get their shit together. Her show “Iyanla Fix My Life” addresses some hard issues people are dealing with on a daily basis and the show just returned for a new season earlier this month. Maybe it’s due to the fact that I myself, love helping others and giving advice, or that I always end up with a lesson learned at the end of the hour-long show. Whatever it is, I’m hooked! My favorite episodes are the ones involving struggling dating lives or marriages (I mean, I think that’s kind of obvious lol). One of her more common questions she asks women that find themselves dealing with love and dating related issues is, “Did you fall in love with the person, promise, or the penis?” I swear that when I first heard Iyanla ask this question I nearly jumped out of my seat! I took this question and applied it to my own dating life. I had quite the revelation and learned a lot about myself. So now I have to ask you, which of the Three P’s is your vice?

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